Eneagrama: Servicios

Eneagrama: Proyectos

Enneagram

Discover your essence and the path to happiness

Enneatype 1

The reformer

Instinct Triad

Fear: being Bad

Desire: to be good, virtuous, balanced.

Message: You are worth it and you are good if you do the right thing.

Integra: Seven

It is known as the reformer since he believes he has a mission in life. They are people who want to be useful, with instinct and passion who believe that they must do something. They strive to be true to their principles and for this they resist their instincts, so they do not express them, they are therefore very strict with themselves and do not often allow themselves to listen to their inner voice for lack of security. Your growth is in listening to this inner voice to know your strengths and limitations.

In their childhood, children one strive to be good children to justify their existence and therefore they are seeking to satisfy expectations of their parents and others. These children feel disconnected from their protective figure and therefore tend to be the voice of reason for the family. They decide to be their own role model and therefore adhere to standards rigorously.

Enneatype 2

The Helper

Triad: Emotions

Fear: Not being loved / wanted

Desire: Feel loved

Message: you are worth and you are good if you are loved by others and you are their friend.

Integra: the four (link to the 4)

The Two is characterized by being the helper of the enneagram, they are helpful in their healthy state and they are interested in being so when they are at a less healthy level. They consider as good things in life: love, intimacy, communication, generosity, family and friendship.

In their healthy fringe they are friendly, affectionate, considerate and generous, they tend to help out with love and patience knowing the right moment to retire.

The two least balanced can present on its dark side characteristics such as: pride, self-deception, intrusion, manipulation. All this driven by the fear of being worthless to others. Seeking to satisfy his ego through sacrifice for others.

Enneatype 3

The Successful

Triad: Emotions

Fear: Not being loved / wanted

Desire: Feel loved

Message: you are worth and you are good if you are loved by others and you are their friend.

Integra: the four (link to the 4)

In their healthy fringe they are friendly, affectionate, considerate and generous, they tend to help out with love and patience knowing the right moment to retire.

Enneatype 4

The Individualist

Triad: Emotions

Fear: Having no identity or personal importance

Desire: To discover oneself and its importance; create an identity from your inner experience.

Message: you are worth it if you are true to yourself

Integra: one (link to 1)

He is the individualist of the enneagram because his identity is maintained by being or considering himself different from others. Fours are well aware of their personal differences and shortcomings and pay attention to them. On a healthy level, they are true to themselves and knowing their dark parts makes it easier for them to process tough life experiences.

They are insecure about their image, their personality or their ego and often feel different and have the desire to be alone. They are romantic, and their identity is built on differences with others. He is the different person who becomes individualistic because he does everything only in his own way. He feels misunderstood and is governed by the motto "I am me, nobody understands me." They have self-image and self-esteem problems and this leads them to build an idealized image of themselves.

Enneatype 5

The Intellectual

Triad: Intellect

Fear: Being powerless or useless

I wish: to be capable and competent.

Message: vouchers if you are an expert in something

Integra: eight (link to 8)

Five is the enneagram researcher, his deepest desire is to discover things as they are. Their search for knowledge is driven by their own insecurities of feeling that they cannot do things as well as others. This insecurity, however, will push them back to the place where they feel that they do know and feel capable.

Five values knowledge and its identity is created by the ability to generate ideas and be resourceful. The issues they focus on will depend on their interests rather than what is socially acceptable.

All five, in their middle range, can withdraw to the place in their mind where they feel capable to avoid any problems that come their way. They also tend to avoid problems by concentrating on other things. They spend most of their time collecting ideas and skills, losing the ability to develop social skills.

The challenge of the five is to understand that you can dedicate yourself to solving and investigating whatever your imagination wants, without losing the ability to take care of yourself, form relationships and lead a healthy life.

Enneatype 6

The Loyal

Intellect Triad

Fear: Being unable to survive alone.

I wish: to find support and security

Message: you are worth it if you do what is expected of you.

Integra: nine (link to 9)

Six is the loyalist of the enneagram, they are the most loyal to their friends and true to their beliefs, they are persevering. Their loyalty is due to the fear of being abandoned or left without support, so their main problem is a lack of security and self-confidence. They are the first type of the triad of thought and this makes it difficult for them to connect with their interior so they do not trust their minds or judgments much. We like to be controlled and They avoid responsibilities that could put them on the edge, they, aware of their anxieties, will seek to build social walls that protect them.

As it is difficult for them to connect with their interior they are I, they are at the same time, that is to say, they are confident and distrustful, brave and fearful, etc ... they are in a few words a bunch of opposites.

Enneatype 7

The Explorer

Triad: Thought

Fear: being stripped of everything and trapped in suffering

I wish: to be happy, content and find satisfaction.

Message: You are worth it and you are fine if you get what you need

Integra: the five (link to the 5)

Seven is the enneagram enthusiast. They are enthusiastic about everything that catches their attention; they have a spirit of curiosity, optimism and adventure in life. The seven usually have a great mental capacity and learn quickly, they are people with great manual skills and mental and physical coordination. Their high learning capacity can lead to indecision, as they are skilled in many things and may not easily decide what to do. This can make them anxious.

To confront anxiety about not making good decisions, you can do two things: 1) Always keep your mind busy 2) Try to find the best. They have a lot of mental and manual agility, which combined with their inclination to learn about many things can be both beneficial and also a reason for instability.

Eneagrama: Proyectos

Enneatype 8

Leader

Triad of Instinct

Fear: being hurt or dominated by others, rape.

Wish: protect yourself and decide your path in life

Message: you are worth it or you are good and you are strong or you are in control of the situation.

Integra: in the Two (link to the 2)

The Eight is the challenger of the enneagram, they love challenges and giving others the opportunity to challenge them and to surpass themselves in some way. They have charisma and physical and mental abilities to convince people to do things. They possess great willpower and vitality, and they use them to create change in their environment, to make their mark, and to prevent others from harming them. They do not like that nobody controls them or has power over them, in any way (sexual, social, economic or psychological). Their behavior will be motivated to conserve and increase power in the shortest possible time.

The Eight is the tough individualist of the Enneagram, they are independent, autonomous and are reluctant to owe someone. They do not tend to abide by social conventions, they do not tend to deviate their behavior because of the opinions of another, and they are able to cope with the fear or shame that this implies. Their ability to take care of themselves with determination makes them respectable and sometimes intimidating.

Their greatest fear is being dominated by someone. They are very resistant to physical or psychological abuse and can endure a lot without complaining, but they fear injury and this means that they can use their physical strength or psychological distance to avoid being injured. The emotional distance they create to protect themselves may confuse others and they will grow further apart. Inside, they tend to feel hurt and rejected and protect themselves by rejecting them first. The characteristic of the eight of the middle band is that they block their ability to connect with others and their ability to love because love empowers others and reactivates their basic fear.

Eights tend to close down and become insensitive the more they give themselves to their ego to strengthen themselves, when they are healthy, however, they possess inventiveness, great dynamism and take life with passion.

Enneatype 9

The peacemaker

Triad: Instinct
Fear: being hurt or dominated by others, rape.
Wish: protect yourself and decide your path in life
Message: you are worth it or you are good and you are strong or you are in control of the situation.
Integra: in the three (link to the three)
It is the enneatype that is called peacemaker, and represents the energy of balance of its triad, because it is in constant search of peace for itself and for its environment. They will always prefer union against separation, peace against suffering. It is oriented towards the spiritual world looking for inner peace, however, it is located in the triad of instinct and for this reason it is more in contact with the physical world and its body. Thus, a nine can be very connected with its elemental power and magnetism developing its instinct or it can be very disconnected apart and a withdrawn person is blown away.
The nine in balance are the crown of the enneagram because they strike a balance between all the other eight personality types, although they do not usually have a strong sense of identity. The nine, more than any other type of the enneagram, tend to flee and react to pain and suffering "trying to live in a state of premature peacefulness, be it false spiritual attainment, or outright denial (Riso Don Richard, 1999)"
They have generally had a happy childhood, but by the nine who have had problems, he learned to dissociate himself from threatening and traumatic situations by adopting a role of peacemaker or mediator, and taking an attitude of disappearing so as not to disturb within the family.
They are children who grew up believing that they could not have needs, or assert themselves or get angry, therefore they did not learn to assert their will and as a consequence they did not learn to fulfill themselves independently of their parents or others, in adulthood they are always trying to please to others who leave their plans in oblivion.
They also learned to repress anger and their will that they lost the consciousness of having anger or their own will. For those who have suffered a childhood of abuse or trauma, the nine learned to protect their feelings by dissociating or closing themselves, which does not allow them to contact or deepen reality.

Eneagrama: Proyectos